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Three Books. One Woman.

On marriage, motherhood, family, food, airports, driving and the impossible work of holding a house.

The Collection by Lai Yin.

Jewellery, handbags, scarves, and accessories selected for beauty, craftsmanship, and everyday elegance.

The book

Somatic Placement

How a woman becomes the gravitational centre of her world.

On Householding

On Householding
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The person who cooks dinner doesn’t clear the table or kitchen.
The person who washes clothes doesn’t dry, fold or restock wardrobes.

He wakes the kids.
Feeds the dogs.
Cuts apples.
Drives them to school.
Lets me sleep in.

I manage the calendar.
The appointments.
The payments.
The pickups.
The returns.

I know when each lesson starts,
and how long it takes to get from school to ballet to taekwondo,
without missing tutoring.

He walks the dogs
because everyone else forgot their promise to walk them.

Lai Yin 麗賢

Lai Yin 麗賢

Lai Yin writes about marriage, sex, motherhood, family, food, airports, driving and the work of holding a house. She lives in Europe with her husband, their three daughters and two dogs.

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